sometimes i want to look hardcore and sometimes i want to look like a precious forest child and sometimes i want to look like a celestial being made of starlight and constellations
David Bowie doesn’t have this problem
we’ve all got that weird pretty big secret that we don’t really hide but like we don’t flaunt it like “My brother died of cancer” or “I’m gay” or “I tried to kill myself last year” or anything really and when you find out somebody’s big plot twist you know you’re in this friendship for the long run
This is a proper psychological thing we do; we basically trade secrets with each other in order to make each other more comfortable until we know enough about each other to form a relationship.
It’s why you often find yourself over sharing at parties with people you just met - lots of people, lots of secrets.